Nicola Spence, BACP
Nicola Spence helps people who are struggling with stress, anxiety, grief, low self-esteem, depression and life changes.
About Nicola
Nicola Spence helps people who are struggling with stress, anxiety, grief, low self-esteem, depression and life changes. She also supports those facing addiction, relationship challenges, trauma and issues with sleep or eating. Nicola presents herself in a straightforward, compassionate way so people feel heard from the first session.
She works with each person as an individual. Nicola describes her approach as human centred and compassion focused. She does not rely on symptom checklists or diagnostic labels and prefers to understand a person's story instead.
Background and approach
Initial sessions explore what has brought someone to therapy and build a shared picture of their life so far. Nicola then helps make links between past experiences and current difficulties. The emphasis is on practical steps and choices people can take between sessions to feel steadier.
Her practice draws on a mix of well known therapies, selecting tools that match a person's needs and goals. Nicola aims to empower people, offering a collaborative plan rather than a fixed path. She values honesty, warmth and clear communication in the therapeutic relationship.
Nicola is based in the United Kingdom and has three years of professional experience. She holds BACP, which is a British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy credential. Sessions are offered in English and available through a range of online formats.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 407866 | May 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Nicola works with
Everything Nicola lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Grief
- Self esteem
- Depression
- Coping with life changes
- Addictions
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Intimacy-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Career difficulties
- Bipolar disorder
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counselling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Nicola lists
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Existential Therapy
- Jungian Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Somatic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
- Internal Family Systems
- Systemic Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
Online support
Finding the right approach is part of the work. Nicola will talk with each person about their needs, goals and preferences and suggest methods that fit. That process is collaborative and may combine elements from different approaches to suit what feels most helpful.
Online sessions can include video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging, giving flexibility for different days and rhythms. Video allows face-to-face conversation when that helps, phone calls can work if bandwidth or movement is an issue, and messaging suits shorter check-ins or people who prefer writing. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, family and routine while keeping a steady course of support from registered or accredited professionals and therapists.
Frequently asked
What concerns does Nicola help with?
She supports people with stress, anxiety, grief, low self-esteem, depression and coping with life changes, plus related issues such as addictions, trauma, relationship and intimacy problems.
What is her style of therapy?
Her style is human centred and compassion focused; she listens to a person's story and works collaboratively to set goals and practical steps.
How much experience does she have?
Nicola has three years of professional experience working with people on a range of emotional and practical difficulties.
What credentials and location are listed?
She holds BACP, the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy credential, and practices from the United Kingdom.
Which languages and international arrangements are available?
Sessions are offered in English and she is not taking international clients.
What session formats does she offer?
Nicola works via video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How does pricing work?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin therapy with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.
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