Jay Cook, NCPS
Jay Cook is a counsellor with five years of professional experience practising in the United Kingdom.
- Stress & Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- +12 more
About Jay
Jay Cook is a counsellor with five years of professional experience practising in the United Kingdom. He works with people from many different backgrounds and has supported clients across the world. Jay aims to make the first step into therapy feel manageable and straightforward.
He offers a calm, non-judgemental space where people can talk through stress, anxiety, depression and relationship concerns. He also helps with issues such as addiction, self-esteem, intimacy-related difficulties and career transitions.
Background and approach
Jay takes a practical approach so conversations lead to clearer next steps. Jay uses a mix of well-established methods to suit each person’s situation. He draws on cognitive behavioural approaches to spot unhelpful thinking patterns and on acceptance-based ideas to practise living with difficult feelings.
Attachment-focused ways of working help when past relationships affect current ones. Sessions are collaborative. Jay will listen first and then suggest small, realistic strategies to try between meetings.
He helps people set goals that feel achievable rather than overwhelming. Together they track what is and isn’t working. People come for many reasons including parenting strain, coping with life changes, LGBTQ issues, ADHD-related concerns and trauma or abuse.
Jay recognises that progress often happens in small steps, and he focuses on building practical skills alongside greater self-understanding. He holds the NCPS credential and delivers work in English. International clients are welcomed and sessions can be arranged by video, phone, live chat or text-based messaging.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| NCPS | NCS23-02658 | September 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Jay works with
Everything Jay lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Self esteem
- Depression
- Addictions
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Intimacy-related issues
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Career difficulties
- Coping with life changes
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Hearing impaired
- Hoarding
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Visually impaired
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Jay lists
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Existential Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Solution-Focused Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
Online support
He also draws on Attachment-Based Therapy when past relationship experiences affect current connections. This approach looks at how early bonds shape expectations of closeness and safety, and it helps people develop more helpful ways of relating to others.
Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will listen to your concerns, discuss different options, and agree a plan that fits your goals and preferences. You can try a method for a few sessions and adjust it if needed, so the work matches real life.
Online therapy offers flexible ways to meet. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation, phone sessions work well when bandwidth is limited, live chat suits brief check-ins and text messaging supports ongoing reflection between meetings. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, family and travel while still using the same therapeutic methods discussed above.
Frequently asked
What kinds of problems does Jay focus on?
He supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues and addictions, among other concerns listed in his areas of focus.
What is his therapeutic style like?
Jay works in a collaborative, compassionate way and combines practical strategies with reflective discussion to help people move forward.
How much clinical experience does he have?
He has five years of professional experience working with clients from a range of cultural backgrounds.
Where is he based and how is he credentialled?
He practices in the United Kingdom and holds the NCPS credential as listed in his profile.
Which languages are used in sessions?
Sessions are offered in English and he works with international clients.
What session formats are available?
Sessions can be arranged as video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging.
How does payment and cost work?
Costs vary by location and match; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.
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