Esther Fendall, BACP
Esther Fendall offers an integrative, evidence-based approach that helps people make sense of difficult times.
- Addictions
- Relationship issues
- Grief
- +13 more
About Esther
Esther Fendall offers an integrative, evidence-based approach that helps people make sense of difficult times. She creates a calm, non-judgemental space where practical steps and reflective conversation happen at a pace that suits each person. Esther draws on 14 years of experience to help people work through stress, anxiety, grief and relationship challenges.
She aims to be direct and empathic in sessions. Esther helps clients set simple, achievable goals and notices what gets in the way of change.
Background and approach
Conversations focus on what is useful now, with attention to past experiences that still affect daily life. Esther has worked across several settings including independent practice, a medical practice and a drug addiction service. She has also volunteered for a UK mental health charity.
Those roles have shaped how she supports people with addiction, trauma and compassion fatigue. Esther is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and follows their Ethical Framework. That informs how she works with people living with long-term conditions, chronic pain, family and parenting concerns, and issues around self-esteem and body image.
She also supports people dealing with career stress, eating difficulties, attachment and abandonment issues, and the effects of major life changes. Esther draws on flexible methods that fit the person rather than using a single technique. Born in London, Esther spent many years living in Ecuador and now lives on the coast of the United Kingdom.
She values pace, space and practical help during times of change.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 45269 | July 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Esther works with
Everything Esther lists, in their own terms.
- Addictions
- Relationship issues
- Grief
- Parenting issues
- Coping with life changes
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Eating disorders
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Depression
- Compassion fatigue
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Hearing impaired
- HIV / AIDS
- Hospice and end-of-life counselling
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Traumatic brain injury
- Visually impaired
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Online support
She also draws on trauma-informed ways of working that help people understand how past experiences affect present reactions. This approach uses pacing and grounding techniques to make it easier to talk about difficult memories and to reduce their impact on daily life.
Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Esther will discuss different ways of working and agree what feels most helpful. She adapts methods to match a person's goals, pace and preferences rather than sticking to one fixed method.
Online therapy with Esther can be done by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging. Video calls are useful for face-to-face conversation, phone sessions can fit into busy days or when bandwidth is limited, quick live chats are helpful for short check-ins, and messaging suits people who prefer to write or need flexible timing. These options make it easier to work around work, family and other commitments while still getting structured support.
Frequently asked
What concerns does Esther help with?
She supports people with anxiety, depression, grief, addictions and relationship worries, plus issues like parenting strain, career stress and eating concerns.
What is her therapeutic style?
Esther works integratively using evidence-based techniques tailored to the person. Sessions mix practical tasks with reflective conversation to help people make steady progress.
What experience does she have?
She has 14 years of practice experience across independent practice, a medical practice, a drug addiction service and volunteering for a UK mental health charity.
What are her credentials and where is she based?
Esther is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and is based in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are supported?
Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.
Which session formats are offered?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How are sessions paid for and what do they cost?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin therapy with Esther?
Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.
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