Nicola Murray, BACP
Nicola Murray is a counsellor with six years of experience helping adults who feel overwhelmed, anxious or unsure where to turn.
- Stress & Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
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About Nicola
Nicola Murray is a counsellor with six years of experience helping adults who feel overwhelmed, anxious or unsure where to turn. She focuses on practical ways to manage stress and anxiety and on restoring a clearer sense of self. Nicola works with people who are navigating relationship and intimacy concerns, addiction, grief and other life changes.
She trained in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, commonly written as CBT, and is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP.
Background and approach
Nicola mixes CBT with acceptance and mindfulness-based ideas and attachment thinking to suit each person's needs. She prefers to keep sessions collaborative and straightforward. Nicola often supports people dealing with ADHD, anger, sleep or eating difficulties, and compassion fatigue from caregiving.
She also has experience with trauma and abuse, and with concerns linked to identity and sexuality, including LGBT issues and alternative sex culture. In sessions she uses clear techniques - for example, noticing unhelpful thought patterns, practising small behavioural steps, and trying out different ways of communicating.
She aims to teach tools people can use between meetings so progress continues outside the room. Her approach is practical and paced to each person. Nicola checks in about what is working and adapts the plan if needed.
She accepts international clients and offers a range of online session types to suit different routines and locations.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 392558 | January 2027 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Nicola works with
Everything Nicola lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Intimacy-related issues
- ADHD
- Addictions
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Grief
- Eating disorders
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Depression
- Coping with life changes
- Compassion fatigue
- Abandonment
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Blended family issues
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Dependent personality
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Multicultural concerns
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trichotillomania
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Nicola lists
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Gottman Method
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Somatic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
Online support
Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Nicola will talk with each person about their goals and preferences and suggest ways of working that fit. She adapts methods over time and checks in to make sure sessions feel useful and relevant.
Online therapy offers flexibility for busy lives. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when visual cues matter. Phone sessions use less bandwidth and can be easier when a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text-based messaging suit people who prefer to write or want brief, frequent touchpoints. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, caregiving or travel while still using established therapeutic techniques.
Frequently asked
What concerns does Nicola help with?
She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression and coping with life changes, plus relationship and intimacy issues, addiction, grief and trauma-related concerns.
What is her therapeutic style like?
Nicola works in a collaborative, down-to-earth way and uses practical techniques such as thought work, behavioural steps and mindfulness practices to support progress.
How much experience does she have?
She has six years of experience working with adults on a wide range of difficulties including ADHD, anger, sleep and eating problems.
What credentials and location are listed?
Nicola is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and is based in the United Kingdom.
Which languages and international options are available?
Sessions are offered in English and Nicola accepts international clients.
How are sessions delivered?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and preferences.
What does therapy cost?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with Nicola?
Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.
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