Simon Barkley, BACP
Simon Barkley helps people manage stress, anxiety, addictions and anger.
- Stress & Anxiety
- Addictions
- Anger management
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About Simon
Simon Barkley helps people manage stress, anxiety, addictions and anger. He supports those coping with low self-esteem, major life changes, grief and sleeping problems. He also addresses career concerns, relationship strain, trauma and compassion fatigue.
Simon works from the United Kingdom and offers sessions in English. Simon believes people know their own stories and brings a practical, down-to-earth style to sessions. He listens first, then suggests approaches that match what someone needs.
Background and approach
Sessions aim to build motivation, boost self-worth and reduce unhelpful patterns that get in the way of everyday life. He draws on eight years of clinical experience and a BACP membership, combining straightforward talking therapy with practical tools. That means using gentle questioning, reflective listening and exercises you can try between meetings.
The emphasis is on small, steady steps people can use right away. Simon uses methods such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Client-Centred approaches alongside existential ideas and motivational techniques. He also uses relationship-focused work based on the Gottman Method where relevant.
These approaches are adapted to the person rather than applied in a single fixed way. Sessions are available by video call, phone, live chat or messaging. Simon accepts international clients and works with people on concerns such as addiction, eating and food-related issues, dissociation, domestic violence, divorce and separation, and communications or commitment problems.
The practical aim is clearer thinking and better day-to-day coping. People who choose his approach can expect a collaborative process that balances listening with active change strategies. He aims to help people move from feeling stuck to having clearer choices and improved wellbeing.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 390197 | October 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Simon works with
Everything Simon lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Coping with life changes
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Grief
- Sleeping disorders
- Career difficulties
- Depression
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- Abandonment
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Dependent personality
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counselling
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Mood disorders
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Simon lists
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Existential Therapy
- Gottman Method
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
Online support
The therapist treats finding the right approach as part of the work. He will talk with the client about goals, preferences and what has helped before, then agree a plan together. That collaborative decision can include mixing methods so sessions fit the person's life and aims.
Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging to make therapy more flexible. Video calls let people use visual cues during conversations, phone sessions work well when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed, and text-based options are useful for ongoing reflection or when people prefer writing. These formats help fit therapy around work, travel or family routines and make it easier to keep the process consistent over time.
Frequently asked
What concerns does Simon commonly help with?
He works with stress, anxiety, addictions, anger, low self-esteem, grief, sleeping problems, career and relationship issues plus trauma and compassion fatigue.
What is his therapeutic style like?
His style is collaborative and straightforward. He listens first, then suggests practical steps and exercises you can use between sessions.
How much clinical experience does he have?
Simon has eight years of professional experience supporting people with addiction, anger, bereavement, trauma and motivation or self-esteem work.
What professional registration does he hold and where is he based?
He is listed with the BACP and practises in the United Kingdom.
Are sessions offered in other languages or to international clients?
Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.
Which session formats are available?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How does pricing work for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
What should someone do to begin working with him?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.
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