Robert Winstanley, BACP
Robert Winstanley is a BACP counsellor with nine years' experience helping people who are struggling with stress, anxiety, grief and relationship difficulties.
- Stress & Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Grief
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About Robert
Robert Winstanley is a BACP counsellor with nine years' experience helping people who are struggling with stress, anxiety, grief and relationship difficulties. He works with individuals facing life changes, career strain, addiction concerns and problems with sleep, appetite or self-esteem. He also offers support around trauma, intimacy issues, ADHD and compassion fatigue.
He practises a client-centred way of working that puts the person’s perspective first. Sessions focus on listening and understanding while also looking for practical steps that make life easier.
Background and approach
Robert adapts his approach to each person rather than using a one-size-fits-all method. Previously he has worked in the NHS and employee assistance services across England and Ireland. That work included supporting people with work-related stress, bereavement and depression, and offering critical incident stress debriefs after traumatic events.
He has experience with people from diverse cultural and neurodiverse backgrounds. In sessions he combines empathic listening with solution-focused techniques to help people find small, manageable changes. He aims to help people identify clearer boundaries, better routines and ways to communicate needs.
Practical tools and steady emotional support feature in his style. Robert offers appointments online by video or phone and by live chat or messaging. People can choose a way that fits their routine and comfort.
To begin, follow the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule according to availability.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 278623 | October 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Robert works with
Everything Robert lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Grief
- Career difficulties
- Depression
- Addictions
- LGBT
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Intimacy-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Bipolar disorder
- Coping with life changes
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Body image
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hospice and end-of-life counselling
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexuality
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Visually impaired
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Robert lists
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Online support
Solution-focused work concentrates on small, practical steps and on what the client wants to change. This approach suits people who want clear actions and short-term goals to manage stress, work issues or everyday problems.
Trauma-focused methods help people process distressing events at a pace that suits them, offering tools to reduce distressing memories and build coping strategies after incidents that feel overwhelming.
Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the first sessions. The counsellor discusses needs, goals and preferences and collaborates on a plan that fits each person's situation. This shared decision-making helps shape the focus and pace of therapy.
Online sessions via video or phone let people join from wherever they are, which can make fitting therapy around work or family easier. Live chat and messaging provide a way to check in between calls or to have shorter conversations when time or bandwidth is limited. These options make therapy more flexible and easier to keep up with over time.
Frequently asked
What concerns does this counsellor help with?
He helps with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship issues and career worries, as well as sleeping and eating problems, addiction and trauma-related matters.
How would you describe his therapeutic style?
He uses a client-centred approach combined with solution-focused and trauma-focused methods to listen, understand and find practical steps forward.
What is his background and experience?
He has nine years of experience, including roles in the NHS and employee assistance programmes across England and Ireland and work in critical incident debriefing.
What credentials and location are listed?
He is BACP accredited and based in the United Kingdom.
Which languages and international options are available?
Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.
What session formats are offered?
Appointments are available by video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging.
How are fees and payments handled?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.
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