Benedicta Sanio Ala-Oborie, BACP
Benedicta Sanio Ala-Oborie is a psychotherapist working in the United Kingdom.
- Stress & Anxiety
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- +13 more
About Benedicta
Benedicta Sanio Ala-Oborie is a psychotherapist working in the United Kingdom. She holds BACP accreditation and has four years of clinical experience. Benedicta offers a calm and respectful approach to therapy.
She aims to make starting therapy feel manageable for someone feeling overwhelmed. She sees people for a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression and grief. She also helps with relationship and intimacy-related issues, trauma and abuse, eating and body image concerns, and parenting stresses.
Background and approach
Additional areas of focus include attachment and abandonment issues, compassion fatigue, ADHD-related coping, and difficulties around communication and commitment. Benedicta blends person-centred and psychodynamic ways of working. That means she focuses on the relationship in the room while helping clients understand patterns that repeat in their lives.
She uses mindfulness and somatic tools such as breath work when these techniques may help with regulation and grounding. Her manner is warm, non-judgemental and sensitive. Sessions are adapted to what each person needs rather than following a fixed formula.
She does not provide diagnoses, but she will work with any existing diagnosis to help a person make sense of their experience. Benedicta supports people through life changes, grief, and difficulties that affect daily living. She aims to empower clients to find clearer ways to manage emotions, improve relationships and build self-esteem.
The first step is a short matching process and then arranging sessions that suit the client.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 391948 | May 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Benedicta works with
Everything Benedicta lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- Self esteem
- Coping with life changes
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Intimacy-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Depression
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Attachment issues
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Body image
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Personality disorders
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Benedicta lists
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Existential Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Somatic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
Online support
Finding the right approach is part of the work. Benedicta will discuss options and tailor methods to your needs, goals and preferences. That collaborative process helps decide whether a more reflective psychodynamic route, person-centred listening, or emotion‑focused work is a better fit for you.
Online therapy offers practical flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face connection and visual cues. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or you prefer not to be on camera. Live chat and text-based messaging suit short check-ins, ongoing notes between sessions or for people who find writing their thoughts easier. These formats make it simpler to fit therapy around work, family and daily life while still accessing registered or accredited professionals and therapists.
Frequently asked
What concerns can Benedicta help with?
She works with stress, anxiety, depression, grief and related difficulties such as trauma, relationship and intimacy issues, eating and body image concerns, parenting stress and ADHD-related coping.
What is her therapeutic style?
Her style is warm, non-judgemental and relational, combining person-centred listening with psychodynamic reflection and practical mindfulness or somatic tools when useful.
How much clinical experience does she have?
She has four years of experience working as a psychotherapist in the United Kingdom.
What professional credential does she hold and where is she based?
She is accredited by the BACP and practises in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are sessions held in?
Sessions are offered in English only.
What formats are available for sessions?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging as ways to meet online.
How are sessions paid for and what do they cost?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; therapy is provided through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.
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