Hilary Cartmel-Batty, BACP
Hilary Cartmel-Batty is a BACP counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship worry, trauma and loss.
- Stress & Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
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About Hilary
Hilary Cartmel-Batty is a BACP counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship worry, trauma and loss. She supports individuals dealing with parenting strain, addiction concerns, mood changes and issues around self‑esteem and intimacy. Sessions are presented in a straightforward way for people who may be nervous about starting therapy.
She creates a calm, non-judgemental space for people to say what they are feeling. The first meetings focus on understanding the problem and what a person wants to change.
Background and approach
From there she and the client agree practical steps that fit their life and goals. Her approach draws on attachment-based ideas to look at how early bonds affect current relationships. She also uses client-centred methods, which put the person's perspective at the centre of the work, and solution-focused techniques to set clear, achievable goals.
Trauma-focused work is used when past hurt is getting in the way of daily life. Hilary has five years' experience and balances personal work with practice through an online diary. She offers flexible session patterns and can discuss either fixed weekly appointments or more adaptable timings to suit a person's needs.
Sessions are available in English and are carried out by video, phone, live chat or text messaging. People are invited to start by completing a short matching questionnaire and then booking a time that suits them.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 379149 | May 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Hilary works with
Everything Hilary lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Coping with life changes
- Addictions
- LGBT
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Bipolar disorder
- Depression
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Hilary lists
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
Online support
Finding the right approach is part of the work and is decided together. The counsellor will check what matters most to the person, try different ways of working and adjust methods based on needs, goals and preferences. That collaborative process helps shape a plan that feels doable and relevant.
Online therapy offers flexible options including video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text messaging. Video lets the counsellor and client use visual cues, phone can be easier when bandwidth is limited, live chat suits shorter check-ins and text messaging supports ongoing reflection between sessions. These formats make it easier to fit therapy around work, family or other commitments and to continue work during life changes.
Frequently asked
What kinds of concerns can be brought to therapy?
Hilary works with a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and relationship or parenting worries. She also supports people facing grief, addiction, career strain and self‑esteem problems.
How would you describe the therapeutic style?
Sessions are person-centred and practical, with space to talk and to set clear steps forward. The work balances understanding emotions with setting achievable goals.
What is her background and experience?
She holds BACP recognition and has five years' experience working with people on a variety of mental health and relationship concerns.
Where is the counsellor based and how is registration shown?
Hilary practises from the United Kingdom and is registered with the BACP, the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How does pricing work for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions are provided via a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with Hilary?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing a short matching questionnaire, then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.
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