Arben "Ben" Delija, BACP, NCPS
Arben "Ben" Delija works from an integrative, person-centred perspective that puts the client at the heart of sessions.
- Stress & Anxiety
- Addictions
- Parenting issues
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About Arben
Arben "Ben" Delija works from an integrative, person-centred perspective that puts the client at the heart of sessions. He combines this approach with practical methods so people can talk about what matters and try new ways of coping. He is based in the United Kingdom and uses English and Albanian in sessions.
Ben draws on five years of professional practice alongside earlier experience supporting people with drug and alcohol issues.
Background and approach
That earlier work focused on harm reduction and included both group work and one-to-one sessions. He brings that background into how he supports people facing addiction and substance-related concerns. Sessions are shaped around each person's needs.
He uses techniques from cognitive behavioural therapy to help spot unhelpful thinking patterns. He also uses elements of dialectical behaviour therapy to teach emotion regulation skills and approaches informed by attachment to look at relationship patterns. People commonly talk with him about stress, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, bereavement and trauma.
He also helps with relationship and intimacy-related issues, family problems, parenting concerns and life changes such as divorce or immigration. Other areas he covers include eating and sleeping difficulties, anger, career stress and compassion fatigue. Ben holds membership of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and is MNCPS accredited with NCPS.
He aims for clear, down-to-earth sessions where goals are practical and progress is measured in small, manageable steps.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 406737 | April 2026 |
| NCPS | NCS22-02259 | June 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
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Focus areas and approaches
What Arben works with
Everything Arben lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- Parenting issues
- Self esteem
- Depression
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Sleeping disorders
- Anger management
- Career difficulties
- Coping with life changes
- Compassion fatigue
- Attachment issues
- Cancer
- Codependency
- Communication problems
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Immigration issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Money and financial issues
- Multicultural concerns
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Workplace issues
Approaches Arben lists
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)
- Motivational Interviewing
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
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Online support
Finding the right mix of methods is part of the therapeutic process. The therapist will talk through needs, goals and preferences and together they will choose approaches that feel most helpful. This is a collaborative journey where methods are adjusted as things change.
Online therapy here is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging to give flexibility. Video calls work well for face-to-face conversation and visual cues. Phone sessions need less bandwidth and can fit into short breaks. Live chat and messaging allow for shorter check-ins and ongoing support without scheduling a full session. These options make therapy easier to fit around work, family or travel and help people access consistent care from different locations.
Frequently asked
What issues does he help with?
He supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, addiction and low self-esteem among other concerns such as grief, trauma, relationship and parenting issues.
What is his therapeutic style?
The work is integrative and person-centred, blending client-focused listening with practical techniques from CBT, DBT and motivational interviewing.
What background does he bring to sessions?
He has five years of counselling experience and prior work of around 18 years supporting people with drug and alcohol issues using harm reduction and both group and one-to-one formats.
Where is he based and what credentials does he hold?
He practises in the United Kingdom and holds BACP membership and MNCPS accreditation with NCPS.
Which languages are offered in sessions?
Sessions are offered in English and Albanian, and he accepts international clients.
How are online sessions delivered?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How much does therapy cost?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
What do I need to do to start?
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