Paula McKee, BACP
Paula McKee uses an approach rooted in attachment and client-centred principles.
- Stress & Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- +14 more
About Paula
Paula McKee uses an approach rooted in attachment and client-centred principles. She offers a calm presence and practical support for people coping with anxiety, stress, loss and relationship difficulties. Paula works in straightforward language and focuses on what someone can do next to feel more settled.
Paula is a British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy - BACP - registered counsellor with 14 years of client work across education, bereavement services and independent practice.
Background and approach
She has particular experience with complex family dynamics and attachment patterns that began in childhood and continue to affect adult relationships. Her background includes work across inner and outer London education services. She often helps people who are dealing with grief, separation, low self-esteem, addictions, anger and the pressures of parenting or career change.
Paula also supports those affected by trauma, neurodiversity and the challenges of leaving one’s country of birth, drawing on her own lived experience in this area. She uses a trauma-informed stance when discussing early difficult experiences. In sessions Paula blends a client-centred style with solution-focused techniques.
That means she listens closely, reflects what matters to the person, and helps set small achievable goals. Practical steps and increased awareness are the main aims, so people leave with ideas they can try between meetings. Paula offers sessions by video, phone, live chat and messaging.
She supervises other clinicians and keeps work grounded in sensitivity to difference and diversity. To begin, people complete a short matching questionnaire and book according to her schedule.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 104372 | February 2027 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Paula works with
Everything Paula lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Grief
- Addictions
- Intimacy-related issues
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Depression
- Coping with life changes
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Divorce and separation
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Paula lists
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Online support
She also draws on client-centred therapy, which focuses on listening and reflecting what matters to the person. That style aims to help someone feel heard and to build their own insight and confidence. Solution-focused techniques are used alongside these approaches to set clear, achievable goals and to identify small steps forward.
Finding the best approach is part of the process and Paula treats it as a collaboration. She will discuss needs, goals and preferences and adjust methods accordingly so sessions fit the person rather than forcing one model.
Online sessions are offered by video, phone, live chat and text messaging to give practical flexibility. Video calls are helpful for face-to-face conversation and non-verbal cues, phone sessions work well when less bandwidth is needed, and live chat or messaging suit shorter check-ins or times when writing feels easier. These options make it simpler to fit therapy around work, childcare and daily life while keeping the focus on steady progress.
Frequently asked
What concerns does Paula help with?
She supports people facing stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and family issues, and problems with self-esteem, anger or addiction. Additional areas include parenting, sleep difficulties, career changes and ADHD.
What is her therapeutic style like?
Her work is client-centred and trauma-aware, with a practical solution-focused element. She listens, reflects what matters and helps set small achievable goals.
How much clinical experience does she have?
Paula has 14 years of experience in counselling and clinical supervision across education, bereavement services and independent practice.
Where is she based and what are her credentials?
She practises in the United Kingdom and is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy - BACP.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can people outside the UK work with her?
International clients are not currently accepted; she works with people based in the United Kingdom.
What session formats are available?
Paula offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How does the cost and booking work?
Cost varies with location and the subscription model used; subscriptions can be cancelled at any time. To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.
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