John Phelan, BACP
John Phelan has practised as a counsellor for 15 years.
- Stress & Anxiety
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- +4 more
About John
John Phelan has practised as a counsellor for 15 years. He offers steady support for people dealing with stress, anxiety, grief and family difficulties. He works with those feeling low self-esteem or struggling with career-related decisions.
His approach is warm and respectful, and he aims to make the first step feel manageable. Over his career he has helped people cope with loss and find motivation again. He also works with concerns connected to attachment, communication problems and fatherhood worries.
Background and approach
Additional focus areas include gender dysphoria, hoarding, isolation and multicultural issues. John adapts conversations to each person, keeping things straightforward and practical. John uses Client-Centred, Psychodynamic and Solution-Focused ideas in his work.
That means sessions can explore past patterns that still cause pain, focus on immediate practical steps, or centre on the individual's own goals and values. He explains options plainly and helps people decide what feels most useful. Sessions are offered in English and he sees people across the United Kingdom and internationally.
He describes himself as compassionate and sensitive, tailoring the process to each person's needs. He aims to make therapy a space where people can be honest and experiment with change. People who choose John often want clear conversation, steady emotional support and help finding small, achievable steps forward.
He encourages clients to set the pace and keeps the focus on what matters most to them.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 054465 | August 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What John works with
Everything John lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Multicultural concerns
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Self-love
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Workplace issues
Approaches John lists
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Online support
Psychodynamic Therapy looks at patterns that began in the past and still affect current feelings and reactions. A short conversation can reveal recurring themes that cause stress or conflict, which helps when grief, attachment or long-standing family problems are present.
Solution-Focused Therapy aims to identify small, practical steps that lead to change. Sessions often focus on the next useful action or a tiny shift in thinking, which can suit work pressures, anxiety or times when someone wants quick, directed help.
Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. The counsellor will discuss options and decide together with the client which ideas to try, based on goals and personal preferences. That collaborative process continues as priorities change.
Online sessions come by video call, phone, live chat or text messaging, offering flexibility for different lifestyles. Video calls are useful for face-to-face conversation, phone sessions work when bandwidth is limited, live chat fits quick check-ins, and messaging lets people reflect between sessions. These options help people fit therapy around work, family and travel commitments.
Frequently asked
What issues does John specialise in?
He works with stress, anxiety, grief, family difficulties, low self-esteem and career concerns, plus related areas like attachment and communication problems.
How would you describe his therapeutic style?
He combines Client-Centred warmth with psychodynamic reflection and solution-focused practical steps to suit individual needs.
How much experience does he have?
John has 15 years of counselling experience working with a wide range of personal and family issues.
What credentials does he hold and where is he based?
He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises from the United Kingdom.
Which languages are available for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English only.
What session formats are offered?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How are sessions priced?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are delivered through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin sessions with him?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.
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