Dorcas Upshall, BACP
Dorcas Upshall is a counsellor who puts each person's goals at the centre of therapy.
- Stress & Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- +13 more
About Dorcas
Dorcas Upshall is a counsellor who puts each person's goals at the centre of therapy. She draws on three years of practice and her BACP registration to help people feel clearer about who they are and what they want. Sessions aim to be straightforward and practical, with space to talk about what is worrying you now.
Dorcas offers a calm, non-judgemental presence and listens for what matters most to the individual.
Background and approach
She helps people notice patterns in their thoughts and behaviour, and supports small steps they can try between sessions. The focus is often on things that make day-to-day life harder, such as anxiety, stress, grief or low self-esteem. Her background includes work in domestic abuse services, women’s centres, pastoral care in schools, LGBTQ+ charities, and addiction and recovery settings.
She has also taught for more than ten years and has experience with adult and young person special needs provisions. These roles have shaped a practical, person-focused way of working. Dorcas is kink-aware and comfortable discussing BDSM, kink and alternative sex culture.
She offers assistance with relationship concerns, intimacy-related issues, and communication problems without assuming a one-size-fits-all route. People often explore attachment worries, jealousy, infidelity, or boundaries in sessions. Therapy may draw on Client-Centred, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy or Internal Family Systems ideas, chosen to suit the person’s goals.
Sessions can also address addictions, eating and body image issues, compassion fatigue, ADHD-related concerns, and men’s issues. Work is paced to each person’s needs and preferences.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 406848 | June 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Dorcas works with
Everything Dorcas lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Intimacy-related issues
- Addictions
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- Eating disorders
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Depression
- Coping with life changes
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Attachment issues
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Body image
- Codependency
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Family problems
- Guilt and shame
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
Approaches Dorcas lists
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
Online support
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts, feelings and actions link together. It’s useful for tackling anxiety, low mood and unhelpful habits by testing new ways of thinking and small behaviour changes.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. Dorcas will collaborate with each person to choose methods that fit their goals and preferences, and adjust the plan as progress is made. The process is conversational and tailored so people can try different ways of working.
Online sessions use video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging to make therapy more flexible. Video works well for face-to-face discussion, phone can be a lower-bandwidth option, and messaging suits shorter check-ins or people who prefer writing. These formats make it easier to fit therapy around work, family and other commitments, and to maintain regular contact when travel or location would otherwise be a barrier.
Frequently asked
What concerns can Dorcas help with?
She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression and grief, along with relationship and intimacy-related issues. Other areas include addictions, eating and body image issues, ADHD, and compassion fatigue.
What is her style of therapy?
Sessions are person-centred and practical. Dorcas listens, helps identify unhelpful thought patterns, and suggests small steps to try between meetings.
What experience does she bring?
She has three years of counselling experience and a background working in domestic abuse services, LGBTQ+ charities, addiction and recovery, schools and women’s centres.
What professional credential does she hold and where is she based?
She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, abbreviated as BACP, and practises in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.
Which session formats are available?
Therapy can take place by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How are fees and payment handled?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.
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