Gordon Birnie, NCPS
Gordon Birnie supports people facing stress, anxiety, depression and problems with intimacy and relationships.
- Stress & Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
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About Gordon
Gordon Birnie supports people facing stress, anxiety, depression and problems with intimacy and relationships. He helps with sexual concerns, LGBTQ matters, and the effects of trauma and abuse. He also works with issues around self-esteem, career direction and coping with big life changes.
Gordon uses a down-to-earth, non-judgemental manner. Sessions aim to be straightforward and practical. He listens first, then helps people set clear goals together.
He draws on client-centred therapy to focus on each person's experience.
Background and approach
Imago relationship ideas inform work on communication and connection. Solution-focused techniques help people identify small changes that make a difference. Gordon has three years of professional experience.
His credential is NCPS, which is listed as NCPS. He practices in the United Kingdom and conducts sessions in English. People often come for help with attachment issues, guilt and shame, or navigating kink, BDSM and alternative sexual cultures.
He also supports those concerned about sexual dysfunction, process addictions and non-monogamous relationships. Gordon aims to make the first steps simple. He encourages honest conversation about goals and practical next steps, rather than jargon or long assessments.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| NCPS | NCS21-00365 | February 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
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Focus areas and approaches
What Gordon works with
Everything Gordon lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Intimacy-related issues
- Depression
- Trauma and abuse
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Coping with life changes
- Attachment issues
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Communication problems
- Guilt and shame
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Multicultural concerns
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Sex addiction
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
Approaches Gordon lists
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Online support
Imago Relationship Therapy focuses on how communication and past experiences shape current connections. It helps people recognise repeated patterns and practice new ways of speaking and listening, which can improve intimacy and reduce conflict.
Finding the right approach is a shared process. Gordon will work with each person to clarify goals, try approaches and adjust as needed. The aim is to match techniques to the person's needs, preferences and pace, not to push a single method.
Online therapy offers practical flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face interaction when eye contact and visual cues help. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text-based messaging suit people who prefer to write, want regular brief check-ins, or need support outside a scheduled call.
These options make it simpler to fit therapy around work and life commitments while keeping the focus on the therapeutic work itself. Registered or accredited professionals and therapists use these formats to deliver tailored, goal-focused support.
Frequently asked
What kinds of issues does Gordon help with?
He supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy concerns, sexual issues, trauma and self-esteem problems.
How would you describe his therapeutic style?
His approach is client-centred, down-to-earth and non-judgemental, with an emphasis on listening and practical steps toward agreed goals.
What experience does he bring to sessions?
He has three years of professional experience working with sexual and relationship concerns alongside mood and anxiety issues.
What credentials and location are listed?
Gordon holds the credential NCPS. He practices in the United Kingdom.
Which languages and international options are available?
Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.
In what formats are sessions offered?
Sessions can take place via video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging.
How is cost handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
What are the first steps to begin therapy?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.
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