Thomas "Tom" Relevitch, BACP
Thomas "Tom" Relevitch uses straightforward, person-focused therapy to help people make sense of difficult feelings and situations.
- Stress & Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- +3 more
About Thomas
Thomas "Tom" Relevitch uses straightforward, person-focused therapy to help people make sense of difficult feelings and situations. He keeps sessions simple and clear. Tom aims to create a calm space where people can talk without being judged.
Tom has ten years of professional experience working with stress and anxiety. He also supports people with LGBT concerns, relationship struggles and coping with life changes. He helps clients who feel stuck or who want practical ways to move forward.
Background and approach
Tom blends client-centred listening with psychodynamic thinking and solution-focused techniques. That means he listens closely, looks for patterns that matter, and helps people identify steps they can try between sessions. He will work at a pace that suits each person and focus on what matters most right now.
People come to him for issues such as abandonment and attachment worries, communication problems, guilt and shame, and feelings of emptiness. He also has experience with non-traditional sexual cultures such as BDSM and kink, and with non-monogamous relationship arrangements. Tom addresses life-stage problems like midlife crises and questions about life purpose.
Sessions are available in English and can be scheduled around midday to late afternoon GMT on weekdays. Tom recognises how hard it can feel to reach out and aims to make the process as straightforward as possible.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 84670 | November 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Thomas works with
Everything Thomas lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coaching
- Abandonment
- Attachment issues
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Communication problems
- Divorce and separation
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- Guilt and shame
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Multicultural concerns
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Self-love
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Workplace issues
Approaches Thomas lists
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Online support
Finding the right approach is part of the process and the therapist will work with you to decide what fits best. He will discuss goals, preferences and what has or hasn’t helped before, then adapt the mix of styles as you go. That collaborative planning means the work evolves around your needs rather than following a fixed script.
Online sessions use video calls, phone conversations, live chat or text-based messaging to give flexibility. Video is helpful when visual cues matter, phone calls suit quieter bandwidth or hands-free check-ins, live chat can be used for brief conversations, and messaging is useful for ongoing reflection between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, family and travel commitments while keeping the focus on the therapeutic work.
Frequently asked
What kinds of problems does this counsellor help with?
Tom supports people facing stress, anxiety, LGBT concerns, relationship difficulties and coping with life changes. He also works with a range of related issues such as abandonment, attachment concerns, communication problems, guilt, shame and loneliness.
What style of therapy does he use?
He uses client-centred therapy to prioritise your perspective, psychodynamic ideas to explore recurring patterns, and solution-focused methods to identify practical next steps. Sessions are conversational and goal-oriented where appropriate.
How much clinical experience does he have?
He has ten years of professional experience working with people on stress, anxiety and relationship issues. That background shapes his practical, down-to-earth approach.
What credentials and location are on record?
He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP, and is based in the United Kingdom.
Can I work with him if I'm outside the UK?
Yes, he accepts international clients and conducts sessions with people in other countries. Sessions are offered in English.
Which session formats are available?
Sessions can be delivered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging. This gives a range of options for different needs and schedules.
How are costs handled for sessions?
Costs vary with location and the therapist's availability. Sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
What do I do to begin working with him?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.
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