Richard Whitenstall, BACP
Richard Whitenstall is a counsellor with 11 years of experience who works from the United Kingdom.
- Stress & Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
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About Richard
Richard Whitenstall is a counsellor with 11 years of experience who works from the United Kingdom. He holds BACP accreditation and has spent much of his career supporting people with anxiety, depression, stress and relationship concerns. Richard also has a history of work with LGBT communities and with men’s mental health projects.
He communicates in English and accepts international clients. Richard’s background includes charity placements and setting up counselling services, along with co-authoring a book that supported mental health charity work.
Background and approach
He has practical experience supporting people affected by domestic abuse, exploitation risks and neglect through outreach and project roles. This experience shapes a direct and pragmatic clinical style. In sessions Richard takes a client-centred approach.
He helps people set clear goals, identify what can change, and make small, achievable plans. He also uses cognitive behaviour techniques to spot unhelpful thinking and solution-focused work to find immediate, practical steps. He works with a wide range of concerns including stress, addiction, grief, trauma, sexual health issues, gender dysphoria, ADHD and chronic illness.
He also supports people navigating intimacy, non-monogamous relationships, attachment worries and communication breakdowns. Richard offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging. Sessions run under a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
To begin, a short matching questionnaire is completed and appointments are scheduled according to availability.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 191764 | July 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Richard works with
Everything Richard lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Self esteem
- Coping with life changes
- Addictions
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Sleeping disorders
- Career difficulties
- Depression
- ADHD
- Attachment issues
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Communication problems
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Family problems
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Men's issues
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self-harm
- Sex addiction
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Richard lists
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Online support
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and actions. It offers practical tasks and ways to spot unhelpful thinking patterns, which can help with anxiety, low mood and sleep problems.
Solution-Focused Therapy homes in on what someone wants to be different and on small steps that lead there. It suits people who want short-term, goal-oriented work and clear actions to try between sessions.
Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and what has or has not helped before, then adapt methods to suit each person. Clients are invited to give feedback so the work can be changed as needed.
Online sessions offer practical flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation across distance. Phone sessions work well when bandwidth is limited or for shorter check-ins. Live chat and text messaging are useful for people who prefer typing or need more frequent, brief contact. These formats make it easier to fit therapy around work, travel and daily life while using familiar communication methods.
Frequently asked
What problems does he commonly help with?
He supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, grief and trauma, along with relationship and intimacy-related issues.
What is his therapeutic style like?
Sessions are client-centred and practical, focusing on goals people want to reach and small steps to get there.
What experience does he bring?
He has worked in counselling roles for 11 years, including charity services, project work with at-risk groups and co-authoring a book on men’s mental health.
Where is he based and what credential does he hold?
He is based in the United Kingdom and holds BACP accreditation as provided in his profile.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.
What session formats are available?
People can meet him by video call, phone session, live chat or text-based messaging depending on their preference.
How does payment and cost work?
Sessions are provided through a subscription model that varies with location and therapist availability and can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.
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